Our beloved Prophet peace be upon him says, “The most perfect of believers is the best of you in character, and the best of you are those among you who are best to their wives.”
What does this tell us? The wife is definitely someone who should be cherished, surrounded by love, and cared for. This wife is where the Ummah and its members learn things that build them as good Muslims in the society. The school of the mother is indeed the best of schools. She teaches her children good morals and conduct. She drenches them with unique love that they'll never experience again throughout their life. And before all that, she tries to be the best wife she can be. She's there for her husband when he's in need…and when he's not. She tries to be his comfort, his support, and his…everything. Her presence is what makes her home feel ALIVE. Honestly, just try going in a home where there is no mother present. It feels dead.
Now, let's look at what we witness daily, shall we? How many cases do we know of where the “man” (or so he calls himself) of the family abuses and mistreats this beautiful wife each and every day? Oh so many. In my case that is. It hurts, because very close people to me have to go through it. One of my close friends has to witness her mother being mistreated and tortured each and every day. WHY?! Because apparently her father doesn't realize that if he's not good to his wife and children, he wont be blessed with any good all his life. It's not like he has a bad wife, of course not. In fact, she is one of the people I admire and respect so much. She does all she can to keep everyone happy. Even at times when she's not able to leave her bed, she still tries and gets up just to make sure her children have ate and are well. People like her amaze me beyond explanation. Why would anyone wish any harm to such a person? WHY? So many people are blinded from what they're blessed with. This man has a diamond in his life and he fails to cherish her.
He's losing so much. She, on the other hand, may be living an unbearable life right now, but she's getting so much reward, Alhamdulillah. For every pain she goes through, imagine that. It still hurts though. It hurts me and I'm not even experiencing it. Imagine her and her children. I can't even begin to imagine my dad laying hands on my mother. I'd have a heart-attack. Ya'Allah. When will people realize? It seems that we are blinded to the point where we don't realize what we have until it's gone…
I don't want to go to my chemistry class. someone please, hurry and tell me I don't have to go!!!!!!!
for….well too many things to name. 
