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Yup, I do… And it's not always pleasant I can tell you, because sometimes it comes at the wrong moment and it's unstopable (but perhaps you already discovered that for yourself
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Hahaha, I bet that's why nobody reacted to my post
But anyways… I'd thought Rembrandt was wellknown all over the world??? 
Aaawww thank you sweet person above me!! I'd really appreciate that!! Because like you said: it really bothers me… You're the best!!
Scar face:shakzee, I honestly never saw myself as above but thanks, and u know what u are as strong and have the willpower to ensure that this situation is resolved in the way it should, just do as I say, and I promise u the man will NEVA eva think of making any sexual ( or other) advances towards u…if he does, then I will come on over to da Netherlands an kick his a$$, coz no one messes with my love ones…that my deary is Scarry's promise 😉 ..
Aaaawww… thank you sweets!!
I'd love to see you come over and kick my bosses a$$ 
I can just picture it, lmbo!! 
And I'll try to think of your advice next time… Thanks again hunn!!its not comfortable at all when u are subjected to verbal abuse like u mention, but u need to speak up sweety….FIRMLY
I will I will… Like I've written to Kavita: I've just made a start today! My revenge will be sweet, because nobody messes with me… whoehahaha!!
(is that firm enough, or what?? lol ) kavita_0026:Shakz hun listen : U're a strong independent woman too n you gat so many pple that love you includin us (aaawww…
) n n that fine finace of yours . I dont know if you told your fiance as yet but I suggest you tell him and have him help you how to deal with what that jerk of a boss is doing 2 you > n yeah we all know that you're a hottie but that doesnt give your boss especially ! the right to harrass you sexuallyMe??? An hottie? You've got to be kidding yaar!!
But thanks anyways 
But you're right, because nothing gives my boss the right to harrass me sexually… I've told my fiancé and he was like “What the ….?!” 
He really wasn't happy with it either and suggested the same as you guys did… Ignore the man and tell him you don't like it when he does it again…Being assertive is a good step to take to shun him of his stupidity n disrespect — > Hun —> You gatta make it clear to him that you dont appreciate the crap what he's doin to you coz it makes you feel very uncomfortable and he shud know that HE IS the wrong one coz you 're not supposed to be doing that in a professional place like that. So try being more assertive yes, and be Strong in your words, dont be all jokey coz they he's gonna take it all for a joke you gatta show him n be serious when u tellin him that its not aight for him 2 be pickin on u sexually n
Today I was really assertive and I'm so proud of it!! My boss wanted to make some comment again (I think it might be a se.xually one) but he said “Oh know, I'm not gonna tell it…” With the implication of “please ask, and I'll tell you” But he had bad luck because I said: “I think that's for the best, so please don't tell…” I was so proud of myself afterwards
also tell ur fiance and ask him for advice coz after all he's the closest 1 u can trust n he loves u with all his heart so he'll kno whatz best for u… n dont blame me if after u tell ur fiance ( unless he knows already ) ur boss ends up run over with a van down the street or something..oopss sorry thats … cold..hehe…
Hahahaha, this part made me laugh so much!!!
Of course I won't blame you!!So let him know juz let ur boss know that u aint gonna take it n it is really bothering u – or TEll a Co-worker how you feel and maybe they can tell ur boss about the problem if you cant tell him yourself — all the best — kav
Thanks sweets for all your good advice!!
I will tell a co-worker of mine… She doesn&# Scar face:wats wrong with the way I am posting NOW??There's nothing wrong with the posts you make… I love them!! You're always around at the right time to cheer me up Hey person above me!! I'm great, thanks
It's good to read you're okay too after you almost got mugged… I'll bet you would have kicked some a$$ if they really did mug you!! That's what hot women do… Please write me more about it when you e-mail me… Got lots to tell you too, but I don't have time any time soon I'm afraid… 
Scar face:I wont sue anyone coz I dnt need to, its all about attitude, I may be an ice queen to all but I rather be that than have
a zillion men thinking I am easy, I will thump them soooo hard, they will faint and wake up thinking they are monkies or
jack a$$es which isnt far from the truth …..sooooooooooo NO no suing or violence, just plain words for me…
Scarry: you're not an ice queen!! You're just a strong independent woman, and that's great!! Be proud of that!
I wish I could be more firm from time to time
But hey, I'm working on it!! I'm trying to be more assertive this year and it's getting better little by little (even my boss himself said to me that they didn't need to teach me how to be assertive, because I already am… lol )… But sexual comments from my boss are still difficult to handle… Nessa:person above me is a sweetheart!
Awww thank you Nes!! So are you!!!
Don't want to hit ur boss, but would love to come along to watch the others!
Hahahaha, afraid you'll get hit too??
The person above me makes me smile because of her posts
Love you yaar!!! Btw… you've got me worried about you almost being mugged!!!!
You're alright??Rembrandt
Scar face: Shakalaka Baby: Scar face:Pleeeeez tell me dis aint true, just heard that John Legend is GAY…
Jeeeez, why are all da damn hot luking dudes taken,
John Legend: hot looking?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Nooooooooooo!!!! You've got to be kidding yaar!!! But I do like his songs…
***sigh*** he has beautiful eyes Shakzeee 😉
He has??? I guess I did miss something Scarry…
boo:
Shakzy!!!!!!! Can't two gals want to be next to each other virtually??!!Of course they can…!! But it just reminded me of me and Amz thinking you're from Germany.. lol
Hahahaha of course I don't mind… As long as it's you, it's okay
kavita_0026:alright i have my exams today!!!!!!!!!!!!1 arghhh!~!!! so much stufff to remember n still not finish studying!!!!!!!!!!!!
yeah life DOES suck..at least right nowI wish you all the luck of the world with your exams Kav!!! Please let us know how they went… Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nessa:Ugh! What a sleaze!
I'm sorry to hear that this guy is getting under your skin Shakalaka. But take heart, if you believe in karma, he will get what's coming to him!
A nice karmic kick to the face will do nicely!
Hahahaha, your post really gave me a good laugh!!!
Thanks so much for cheering me up Nessa ji!!! That was just what I needed… Scar face:oye shakzee
sticking out yr tongue at da man will only make him want to go full force with this harassment hun.
I know I know… but it was just joking at that moment
Men are like that, they think weirdly …I knw its reflex coz I do dat sumtimes with da guys here but its
coz they know I am playful and theres A LOT of respect between all of us ….
I have that with a colleague (male) of mine too… But in that way, it's okay
Anyways, u must stop this now before it gets worse and it will coz if u dnt do or say anything at the onset it will be seen
in his favour when u do take it up…
Okies, first approach him and be very stern and firm about the fact that his behaviour is inappropriate and u
wud appreciate it if he stops all this sexual advances towards u…
give him a day or two, if it continues, tell him u will take it further…
if it still doesnt stop then do take it further, U CAN SUE the man
sooo do it the proper way, or when/if things get worse he will say u were encouraging him
sooo yeah dats my bit for now, will send u an email sooon
pls take it easy and be careful ok hun, this world is full of disgusting ppl like yr boss
Thanks for all your good advice Scarry!!! You're the best!!
Wow, nobody will mess with you I guess… They're probably to afraid you'll sue them Yemenilicious:LIFE SUCKSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Aaawww hunn… what's wrong??? Here's a hug to comfort you sweety
I hope you feel better soon!! Unique_princess:shakz, yeah Im thinking same as kavi, if he makes anymore of those types of comments just tell him very sternly that you don't appreciate them and even though they be be in jest, you don't want to be hearing such comments and to keep it professional? Good luck with everythin hun x
Aaawww, thank you sweety for your advice and everything… I really appreciate that!!
I hope you're feeling better now… Take care of yourself hunn and don't get too frustrated!!
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