Am Rani:boo:Shakalaka Baby:
How lovely!! Let me know when you're coming, so I can make the guestroom ready for you
Guestroom kyun? LOLOL… sorrysorrysorry… I will shut up now…
Whahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha, ROFLIMAO!!!!! OMG Boo, that was exactely what I thought when I read Shakz post !!!
Hahahaha, I'm really very sorry Shakz, but it seems you are getting yourself a reputation around here!! Good for you I know you in real life..You should really be more carefull picking your words…
Hahaha, why? What's wrong with my wordpicking? I'm just offering him a nice place to stay… In the GUESTroom, where do you otherwise have these things for? It's not as if I'm inviting him into my bed or something… But yeah… the problem's solved already… Serio is staying in a box on the street
serioComic:shakz…sorry to burst yr bubble but i rather sleep at the streets.
No problem… I can arrange a box on the street for you too… We have lots of them in Holland
Messy…
Am Rani:
Yes, we are , but don't you promise to take care of eachother, when you get married? In sickness and in health?? Where does the “caretaking” end?
Yes you do, and I dunno where the caretaking ends… I just dunno…
Am Rani:
And what do you think? Is there something wrong in you relationship in the first place, when you fall in love with another? Do you miss something in the relationship you have, when you let yourself fall in love with someone else?
I don't think something has to be wrong in your relationship when you fall in love with someone else… I think it might be possible to love two persons. I didn't believe it in before, but I'm starting to believe in it lately… Why should people just love one person? How can just one person be THE ONE for you? How do you know?
Don't get me wrong, I really love my b/f and I'm not crazy in love with someone else, but I think I could be… How do I know my b/f is really the one for me? I do believe it at the moment, but it's no garantee for the rest of my life… I just have to stick to it and believe in it until the opposite is proved I guess…
Am Rani:What's the definition of love anyway?
I don't think love has a definition… Some people will say friendship is enough, other people will say they need friendship but also a sparkle of love and butterflies in their stomach everytime they see the one they love…
I think that love should mainly be trust, friendship, love (if you still feel butterflies when you see the one you love, that's fantastic right?!), protection, comfort, giving and taking, and respect… You just have to feel a connection with someone… I know it's easy to say on here, but love is really difficult in reality. I'm together with my b/f for almost 3 years now and I still don't know what love really is. It's kind of frightening sometimes I can tell you…
Am Rani:My mum always says she would die if she could save my sister of me with it. She's not sure if she would die for my father… Does than mean she does not love him?
I think she really loves your father, but maybe she thinks he will save himself. She knows he's strong, and grown up enough to save himself. You and your sister are her children so she feels that she has to protect you from whatever comes on your path to hurt you… Eventhough you're grown up, you're still her little babies…
Love is as the translation from some Hindisong says… “Love is a secret that cannot be understood”
Am Rani:That's right. But I guess you can only speak of true love when you give someone your heart…
I agree with you Am Rani.. If you truly love someone, you give that person your heart, your love, your tenderness, just everything you have to give that person…
I have an other theory… Sometimes love doesn't fail, but it makes people fail.. Let's say that you're happily in love with someone and than out of the blue you meet someone that steels your heart too… Than you get confused, also in your relationship with the one you truly love… Which one do you really love? Maybe you love both? What are you supposed to do? When you're together with your b/f or g/f you're not only thinking of him/her, but also of the other person you love too. If this gets too confusing it might let your relationship fail too…
If you stay together you can wonder forever how it would be to be with the other person, but if you break up with your b/f or g/f, the relationship is broken forever, and you'll have regrets for life if the other person is not worth it in the end… Did love fail then? No it didn't, it just made you make the wrong decission…
Deep discussions around here…
I don't think that love itself can fail, but the people who love someone fail… They can do something crazy, something that hurts the other halfs feelings, or they're not there when their b/f or g/f or husband/wife needs them… People who love someone can do something to make the love they share with someone to fail…
Example: I love my b/f very very much.. If he would kiss an other girl, I'd be devastated and I will break up with him, but my love for him is still there… I'm just very disappointed in what he did, and I can't trust him anymore, and so I can't be together with him anymore.. Relationships are build on trust and respect, and kissing an other girl would be respectless against me…
So I agree with Kushi: Love doesn't fail, people in love do… Not always both people, but one does…
Yucky… don't like much fruits and especially no walnuts
Tuna salad…
Neither one…
Employee or employer?
boo:poor you… there there… your smiling buddy is here to cheer you up, na?
Yeah that's great Too bad I have to leave ya in a minute… I don't wanna go, but I really have to do some things… Talk 2u later hunn… and uh… keep smiling smiling buddy!!!
boo:Tell me more about your holiday thennn… (yeah um… well you know what i mean. Gosh. I am feeling 'crazy' today.)
About my holiday… Well for some reason everything has to go messy when I'm going on holiday… No delayed Am Rani this time, but the train didn't go and my b/f and I were almost removed from the second train because my b/f didn't have a right ticket by accident and I commented that the delay would compromise it… The man who checks on your ticket got mad about that, but after that my b/f talked to him we could stay in the train…
But the rest of the days were really great!! We saw all the famous sights… Nyhavn, the Little Mermaid, Amalienborg Castle, Kronborg Castle (the castle that is famous because of Shakespears Hamlet), we went on a traintrip through Sweden (Malmö and Helsingborg), we went to Tivoli (which is full of lights and Christmas shops and decorations… really beautiful!! ), and to Ripley's Believe it or not museum and the Vinking Ship Museum… It was all really really great, but I'm really tired now haha
boo:Shakalaka Baby:
And because you said that the floor was very hard and dirty, I didn't jump over the bags from the woman who just stopped at THE MOMENT in front of me when my b/f came out of the doors I just walked around that woman and hugged my b/f… Less romantic, but still great… *sighs* haha
naaaaa ShakB… i have to go with Am Rani ji on this one… i like her version better…
funny how you seem to come up with GREAT stories when it comes to involving am rani ji in them, but the moment they involve you they seem to somehow… be LESS dramatic and embarassing? huh? HUH? am rani ji won't be too pleased…
Her version is better… That's was how I imagined it would be, except for the falling though… I did think of that too, so I said to my b/f that when he saw me starting to run, he had to drop his luggage and catch me in his arms But thanks to that stupid woman, it all didn't happen…
boo:hai hai… you get the best of both huh?
Hmm… something like that I suppose
boo:haan… i agree…
two gals smiling away over the world of Internet…
beautiful thought huh?
Yes it really is!! Thanks for being my smile buddy Boo
boo:hahaha!!! secretly watching Bollywood when he's not around eh? and ogling at SRK as well, I'm sure… naughtyy… no ji, kidding…
it's beautiful… the way you compromise out of love… instead of letting go of things that mean a lot to you…
Yeah it is… And when my b/f is not around, I always have SRK on my tv screen haha Not so bad either.. He's a good substitute
Ooops.. I AM naughty