vchenoah:serioComic:none.
a talent u wish u had
i wish i could sing
same q
I wish I could dance… Well I can dance a bit, but I mean really dance… You know like the salsa or something… I think that would be great!
Next Q: What is your favorite dance?
vchenoah:lol…that is really sweet of u shaks! And welcome home!
Thanks Vchenoah!!
boo:would you do so with a girl? why should it be any different if it is a guy? isn't love the one and same thing?
I can tell a girl that I love her, but I'm not used to do that… I grew up without I love you's, eventhough I just know my parents love me… I don't say easily I love you to a person, and especially not to guys… When you say I love you to a guy in Holland, they will think you really are in love with them… If you tell a close ladyfriend that you love her, she'll understand… So I will probably tell a girl (eventhough it's kind of strange to me, because I'm not used to say that), but certainly not a guy, eventhough I assume that a close male friend will understand…
But yeah… you're right, love is one and the same thing… It's not different with a guy if you think about it, but it's just the culture I grew up with I guess…
Nikaah…
Ga…
MMMMMMMMMMM!!!!!! YUMMMYYY!!!!!!
Chicken meat…
boo:as i said ShakB… love can't be defined… therefore I will have no problem telling one guy that i love another guy… because anyone who knows me will know exactly what i mean by love… and love does not have to end up with me in bed with a guy, simply because i love him… love goes beyond that…
i need someone crazy like me lol… who can accept that they may not be the only guy i love, but who will know that my love can be crazily beautiful… and i would never do anything to break the trust within my control/whatever…
if your b/f were to tell you that he loves another girl too, what would you do shakB? if he can love you with so much intensity and yet find it in himself to say “i love you” to another girl too… what would you do?
Boo… now you're talking about love in a friendship way, I was talking about love in a really true love way… Of course some other guy can have a special place in my heart, but I will never tell that person I love him… I will tell him he's a great friend and so on, but the only person I say “I love you” to, is the one I'm together with… In my case my b/f… I can not really love two persons and be together with one…
And to answer your question… I don't know what I would do, but I'm sure I would be pretty jealous… It's okay for my b/f to have ladyfriends too, but if he really loves them, it's different… But as long as I'm the one who he wants to spend his life with, and as long as I'm the only one he shares his kisses and bed with it's okay with me… I can live with love for other women in a friendship way….
Unique_princess:Love is the purest feeling. It can never fail, love is immortal. Love doesn't change, people change. Love doesn't move on, people move on. Love doesn't lose faith, people lose faith. Love doesn't give up, people give up..
So true Unique… so true!!!
It's just the greatest (or should I say worse?) present we can give you for your birthday Happy birthday Serio!!
Oh yeah… and don't blame me if you're cold and frozen
serioComic:Shakalaka Baby:No problem… I can arrange a box on the street for you too… We have lots of them in Holland
why do i need a box? the bench in some park would do just fine.
Well I dunno if you know this, but it's raining a lot in Holland… But yeah, if you insist to stay on a bench in some park, be my guest
The person above me doesn't believe in love…
boo:Am Rani:Whahahahahahahahahaha… Shah Rukh?? A substitute for your boyfriend?? So many woman in the world dying to meet him, and you only see him as a substitute, you only pay attention when you b/f is out of town??? Pagal *shakes head* Really pagal
(But good for your boyfriend you pick him over everybody… )
ahahahahaah!!!! I did not see it this way Am Rani ji…
pagal indeed…
Pfff… thanks very much Boo and Am Rani!! Great friends you are!! Saying that I'm pagal… Me? Pagal? Never!! But anyways… I'd rather have a b/f in real life than only SRK on the screen… And my b/f is just much cuter than SRK is (I know you don't agree with me Am Rani, but for me he is)
Am Rani:
Haha, sorry Shakz, still laughing about all this
And I'm indeed not pleased!! When she comes up with stories, I have to go to the most embarrasing and crazy things. And when I tell a story we made up together, she starts chatting about some woman with some luggage and all that stuff… Na, Shakz, dissapointing!!
Yeah well… as you said in some other thread: I have to watch out and not get a reputation around here I was just thinking about myself (and my reputation) hahaha
Office…
It's not about right or wrong. It's about what we believe and why. It's not as if we're trying to convince one another, we're just talking about it… It's great, if I may say so! Am Rani and I did this a lot when we were in the same class at school. We had a book where we were writing in about serious stuff. It's just cool to do this from time to time, and it makes you think about what is important for you and what you believe in. You learn more about yourself, and you can learn a lot from each other… That's great, isn't it?
And Serio, sometimes there are no answers to find… It's just that talking about serious stuff with other people will make you think more and let you look deep in your soul… You'll find yourself, but no answers…
No I don't person above me… When I see how much love you give other people around here, you can't be not romantic in falling in love. Eventhough the thread you started…
I also want to react to this thread, because I am religious… In my point of view I'm not limitated because I believe in God… And I do not also follow someone or something like a blind sheep… In church the societies sometimes control each other too much.. It's the same in my church, and I really don't believe in that… I believe in God, I respect what's in the Bible and it's a Guide for me throught life, but believing in God does not depands on the fact if you're wearing a skirt or a hat or whatever… It depands on what you feel in your heart and what you do…
I feel Gods love in my heart, eventhough something really bad happens… All the bad things came into this world because of us, the human beings, and God is watching over us.. That doesn't mean we can't get sick or die, but it means we have a Friend who stands by us no matter what… And he has a plan with us.. When God sometimes closes a door, He opens a window… I can believe in that, and it helps me through the rough times…
Once, when I was doubting my relationship, because I thought I was in love with someone else too, I asked God to show me the way and to show me for which guy I had to choose… Through different signs he showed me that I should stay together with my b/f and to really go for him, and not for the other person… Or when my b/f is away and I feel really sad, I pray to God if He can stand by me and make me feel better, and after a while I feel some peace coming over me and I'm feeling better… I do also believe God uses people for that… When I feel sad I can also come to a friend like Am Rani… I believe God has given me her and my other friends to get through the rough times on earth and to bring joy in my life… It's His way to make me happy…
And the guidelines, told in the ten demands, are just to guide you through this world and to make the world better, not to restrict you in life…
And about se.x before marriage… I really doubt about the fact if you can or can't do that… It says nowhere in the Bible that you can't, but also nowhere that you can (it only says you can be hoo.ker or something, but I think that's normal)… My b/f is very religious so he doesn't want to have se.x before marriage, but he says you can se.xually almost do everything, exept for IT before you get married… I don't think that's true… You can do OR nothing OR everything…
As you can see, I'm religious, but not traditional religious… I believe in God and I will follow Him wherever He may go (like they sing in Sister Act ), but I don't believe all the restrictions the church puts on religion… I think that's also a reason people do not go to church or believe in God… I mean, how can you believe in a loving God when you can't do anything in life?
boo:If you love someone, you love them. And that is all there is to it.
If I find a guy I love, with all my heart, I will let him know so. At the same time, if I find ANOTHER guy whom I love with all my heart, I will let him know so too.
Whether I am being 'unfaithful', or a 'player', or whether I am confused as to whom I see as a friend and whom I see as a lover – all this means nothing to me.
At the same time, lol, I want to clarify that I never have been a player, and never will be a player (well, in all honesty, who knows what the future holds… but as far as 'now' is concerned…)… I will know where my priorities lie… I know my heart will guide me.
I agree love doesn't have to be guide by political rules or something, but there are borders… You're really honest if you tell the second person too that you love him, but would you tell the other about it too? Honesty can also be really painfull and bring you in difficult and nasty situations… Does that really mean nothing to you? I really couldn't do that…
You say your heart will guide you, but what if your heart is confused and wants to go in two directions? Which way do you choose?
The person above me is feeling the luvv… I guess Ramz most be a romantic person..