I got this email as a forward and really liked it so decided to share with everyone.
Bismillaahir Rahmaanir Raheem…
Assalamu Alaykum,
A person came crying and weeping to Shaikh Shiblee Rahamatullahi alayh and said, ‘O Shaikh, I have destroyed myself; make du’aa for me that may Allah take me away from this world.’
People, whose relationship with Allah is strong, will never ever dream of committing suicide. Those people who enjoy the pleasures of this world; alcohol, drug, women, dubbing, etc., they are the people who will ultimately, want to commit suicide because they will get sick of this world. Those who enjoy the pleasures of this world by committing sins will be surrounded by problems from all four sides. They have brought these problems upon themselves through disobedience to Allah Ta’aalaa.
Such people begin to feel they will only find peace, if they are dead. An Urdu poet has said: Now out of fear you desire to die (But) even after death, if you do not find peace, where will you go?
Now, overpowered by calamities and problems, you desire to die and you consider death a solution to all your problems, but if, after death, you do not find peace in the grave, if you do not find peace on the Day of Qiyaamah (Day of Judgement), if you do not find peace on the Pul Siraat (The Bridge that leads to Paradise) and you are deprived of entry in Jannah (Paradise), then where will you go?
So the person said to Shaikh Shiblee, ‘I have a big problem. Make du’aa that may Allah Ta’aalaa take me away from this world.’
The Shaikh said, ‘Calm down, take it easy, what is the problem?’ He replied, ‘I had a very close friend, and I loved him very much. We were friends for a very long time. He sacrificed everything for me and I sacrificed everything for him. I had never thought that he will ever leave me but he has left me. Now my heart is empty. I cannot survive without him. I love him so much that I want him back, and if I cannot have him back, then I want to die.’
The Shaikh soothed him and asked him to calm down saying, ‘Look, there is no need to lose hope. Why do you want to die when there is a solution to your problem?’
He quickly said, very happily, ‘Tell me what is the solution, tell me quickly! Since he has left me I have not been eating, drinking or sleeping. There is no joy in my life. Please tell me quickly.’
The Shaikh replied, ‘The only way to forget a friend who has left you is to make a new friend.’ He said, ‘O Shaikh, after ten to fifteen years of loyal friendship, he has left me and I am suffering. And you are telling me to make a new friend. I fear that if the same thing happens, then what will become of me.’
Shaikh Shiblee said, ‘What if I find you a friend who will never leave you. In fact, if you are disloyal to him and after years of disloyalty, you go back to him saying O my friend! Forgive me. I want to be your friend again, he will immediately accept you again as a friend.’ He said, ‘O Shaikh! Show me this friend! Who is this friend that is so loyal.’
The Shaikh replied, ‘Turn to Allah and make friendship with Him.’
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BELIEVE ME sweetheart – the world has PLENTY of beautiful things I know… 🙂, and one day – one damn fine beautiful sweet day – you will find your inspiration Insha'Allah! 🙂 , your own beautiful secret to life that will stop you from EVER being sad again Insha'Allah… 🙂 … you HAVE TO have faith… life is WAY WAY WAY TOO SHORT for you to EVER lose faith… I haven't lost faith… I've just lost my strength for the moment. And yes… yeh zindagi bohot lambi hai, aur humare paas waqt bohot kam hai. I know, sweeti, I know.
I can't pull you out of this sadness. Heavens know I wish I could, but I CAN'T. Only YOU can do that, sweety… only YOU can come up with YOUR OWN SWEET INSPIRATION FOR LIVING… and the most BEAUTIFUL thing will be, that you came up with it YOURSELF :)… that would be beautiful, wouldn't it? This sounds like something I would say… I guess I just needed to hear it from my twin, my reflection… 🙂 . Sometimes we look outside our own selves for love and comfort, that we forget there is always, always a welcome place in our heart for ourselves. Oh jaana… I need to find that welcome place… I'm too tired of looking and not finding anything 🙁 *rests in boo's arms*
FIND IT, sweetheart… whatever it is that's getting you down – DON'T let it get the better of you. I'm trying… I promise you, I'm trying like I've never tried before.
You are a BEAUTIFUL person. Discover yourself. This is one of the most beautiful and sweetest thing someone has said to me recently. I love you oh so much.
Boo! LOL I was NOT referring to you! Yes, I did have certain people in my mind while I was writing that, but you did not come up, twin ji.
I will repy to your emails soon insha'Allah
I love you. Seriously, I love you.
Taybati, jaane tu ya jaane na, phool phir khil jaate hai.
Tayba, for you.
Kabhi Kabhi Taybati Zindagi
Mein yunhi koi apna lagta hai.
Kabhi Kabhi Taybati woh bichad jaye toh
Ek sapna lagta hai
Aise mein koi kaise apne aasuon ko behne se roke
Aur kaise koi soch de
Everythings gonna be ok
Kabhi kabhi toh lage zindagi mein rahi na khushi aur na maza
Kabhi kabhi toh lage har din muskhil aur har pal ek saza
Aise mein koi kaise muskuraye kaise hasde kush ho ke
Aur kaise koi soch de
Everythings gonna be ok
Soch zara jaan-e-jaan tujhko hum kitna chahte hai
Rote hai hum bhi agar teri aakhon mein aasoon aate hain
Gaana to aata nahi hai magar hum phir bhi gaate hain (And we know how true this is!)
Hey Taybati maan kabhi kabhi sare jahaan mein andhera hota hai
Lekin raat ke baad hi to savera hota
Kabhi Kabhi Taybati Zindagi
Mein yunhi koi apna lagta hai.
Kabhi Kabhi Taybati woh bichad jaye toh
Ek sapna lagta hai
Hey Taybati hasde hasde hasde hasde hasde tu zara
Nahi to bas thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda muskura
Tu Khush Hai to lage ki jahaan mein chaayi hai kushi
Suraj nikle badlon se aur baate zindagi
Sun toh zara madhosh hawa tujhse kehne lagi
Ki Taybati woh jo bichadte hain ek na ek din phir mil jaate hain
Tabati jaane tu ya jaane na phool phir khil jate hain
Kabhi Kabhi Taybati Zindagi
Mein yunhi koi apna lagta hai.
Kabhi Kabhi Taybati woh bichad jaye toh
Ek sapna lagta hai
Hey Taybati hasde hasde hasde hasde hasde tu zara
Nahi to bas thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda muskura
Hey Taybati hasde hasde hasde hasde hasde tu zara
Nahi to bas thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda thoda muskura
I love you *tight hug*
LMAO! (errrm, is the A in LMAO considered a potty word? OMG! OMG! OMG! LMAO! LMAO! POTTY WORD! AND THE A WORD! LMAO YOU NEED THE A TO GO POTTY! LOL LOL LOL! – okay I shut up now) that pic is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo crajee and adorable! You never told me who I was on the pone! Am I posed to guess? Am I tiny?
hehe I lubbbb youuuuuuuuu!
Potty mouth loves you back! LOL eeeugh Neesi I was JUST thinking about my whole potty mouth business! I really need to start replacing my words again! I'll get to it! Starting now!
[Taking a small break from my break to come to this haven of mine. Why? Because sometimes we need to do things to keep ourselves sane.]
She sits in the corner
singing herself to sleep
wrapped up in all the promises
no one seems to keep.
Sometimes when you need to hear those words the most (I love you), you're the one that ends up saying them first.
Promises shouldn't be broken…
It's so easy to make promises, to say you'll be there for someone… but it's actually showing up that matters the most. I've had so many people tell me they'll be there for me… but when it was time to fulfill their promise, did they show up? Forget showing up, they couldn't even offer a mere “I love you”.
I have so many emotions, so much pain inside of me that I don't know which one to take care of first. But you know what? Dil hai toh phir dard hoga (If there is a heart, then there will be pain), dard hai toh dil bhi hoga (if there is pain, then there must be a heart). Because Dil toh aakhir dil hai na (a heart is, after all, a heart), meethi si mushkil hai na (it's a sweet sort of hardship).
This test that we call life, it's also a game. And I'm still alive.
Numb.
Jaane tu ya jaane na phool phir khil jaate hai.
Iloveyou.
And I wish to be numb numb numb to it all… enjoy the numbness sweetheart, use it to your advantage… feelings may be good and all, but sometimes if life were to give you a magical pain-numbing cream, you just gotta grab it with both hands and rub it all over all the wounds of the past and the present.
I feel you.
Dil hai toh phir dard hoga, dard hai toh dil bhi hoga.
I cannot emphasize that line enough. I love it so much. I love you so much.
Oreoooooooooooooooooooo! For you!
[very bad quality, i know, but only one wiht subtitles so deal with it! ]
Lmao eeeevil loook!
Lol they both look like retards!
Shut up
RaNi iS ThE BeS:boo:Baqtiar:Hey MEIN HOON NA boo ke liye………..
groan…
Haha Boo! hehe.
Baqtiar- boo ko aap ki zaroorat nahi, usko toh kisi aur ki zaroorat hai.
DOUBLE groan… pls donttttttttt.
LMAO! LMAO! LMAO! MEMORIES!!!
I am soooo hiiiigh!
For you, twin ji!
MITWA
Mitwa….Mitwa
My friend…
Love will find a way
Jaaniye heeriye
My love, my sweetheart
Mere man yeh bata de tu
Tell me, my heart
Kis or chala hai tu
Which direction are you going in
Kya paaya nahin tune
What haven’t you got?
Kya dhoond raha hai tu
What are you searching for?
Jo hai ankahee, jo hai ansunee woh baat kya hai bata
What is that which is unsaid and unheard?
Mitwa …kahe dhadkanen tujhse kya
My friend….what are your heartbeats telling you?
Mitwa….yeh khud se to naa tu chupa
My friend….don’t try to hide it from yourself
Mere man yeh bata de tu
Kis or chala hai tu
Kya paaya nahin tune
Kya dhoond raha hai tu
Jo hai ankahee, jo hai ansunee woh baat kya hai bata
Mitwa …kahe dhadkanen tujhse kya
Mitwa….yeh khud se to naa tu chupa
Jeevan dagar mein, prem nagar mein (2)
In life, in the path of love
Aaya nazar mein jab se koi hai
From the moment someone has entered
Tu sochta hai, tu poochta hai
You’ve been thinking and asking yourself
Jiski kami thi, kya yeh wohi hai
Is she the one you were lacking in life?
Haan yeh wohi hai, haan yeh wohi hai
Yes she’s the one
Tu ek pyaasa aur yeh nadi hai
You’re the thirst and she’s the river
Kaahe nahin isko tu khulke bataaye
So why don’t you open up and tell her
Jo hai ankahee, jo hai ansunee woh baat kya hai bata
What is that which is unsaid and unheard?
Mitwa …kahe dhadkanen tujhse kya
My friend….what are your heartbeats telling you?
Mitwa….yeh khud se to naa tu chupa
My friend….don’t try to hide it from yourself
Teri nigahen paa gayi raahen
Your eyes have sought the destination
Par tu yeh soche jaaon, na jaaon
But you’re thinking…should I go or not?
Yeh zindagi jo, hai naachti toh
if life is dancing away
Kyoon bediyon mein hai tere paaon
Why are your feet chained?
Preet ki dhun par naach le pagal
Dance to the tunes of love you crazy one
Udta gar hai udne de aanchal
If your veil flies then let it
Kaahe koi apne ko aise tarsaaye
don't let yourself be tormented this way
Jo hai ankahee, jo hai ansunee woh baat kya hai bata
What is that which is unsaid and unheard?
Mitwa …kahe dhadkanen tujhse kya
My friend….what are your heartbeats telling you?
Mitwa….yeh khud se to naa tu chupa
My friend….don’t try to hide it from yourself
Mere man yeh bata de tu
Kis or chala hai tu
Kya paaya nahin tune
Kya dhoond raha hai tu
Love will find a way
Jaaniye heeriye
These lines haunt me…
Dil, hai dil, mera dil, hai dil… kab banjaayega tere qaabil… {?}
roozi bood aasheqat boodam
az daste to kheyli raazi boodam
ammaa to ba'd sheytooni kardi[:'(]
nazdike man nayaa to
boro, boro, delam toraa, toraa namikhaahad
diga, diga, na mikhaayam bebinamat
boro, boro, delam toraa, toraa namikhaahad!!!
diga, diga, namikhaaham bebinamat!!!!!!!!
bure bure ham ham ham shaitaan zara zara bachna re hamse
bure bure ham ham ham shaitaan zara zara thagna re hamse
roozi bood aasheqat boodam
az daste to kheyli raazi boodam
ammaa to ba'd sheytooni kardi[:'(]
dele man toraa diga namikhaahyad[:'(]
roozi bood aasheqat boodam……
az daste to kheyli raazi boodam
ammaa to ba'd sheytooni kardi….
nazdike man nayaa to!!!
bure bure ham ham ham shaitaan zara zara bachna re hamse
bure bure ham ham ham shaitaan zara zara thagna re hamse
boro, boro, delam toraa, toraa namikhaahad
digar, digar, namikhaaham bebinamat!!!!
boro, boro, delam toraa, toraa namikhaahad
digar, digar, namikhaaham bebinamat!!!
boro, boro, delam toraa, toraa namikhaahad
digar, digar, namikhaaham bebinamat!……
ah i'm totally feeling this song! i luv it!!!
Ladies And Gentlemen A Son Friend Is A Son Friend Till He Gets
Himerself A(n) Wife Other Friend (OK i know that made no sense…!) But A Daughter GMTA Buddy Is A Daughter GMTA Buddy
All Her Life!!!!!!!!!!!
OMG I FEEEEEEL YOU!
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww man I was so sweet back then! LMAO Reading these old posts TOTALLY made my day! Oreo, you rock ji!
I am 19 now, not a dadi, but getting there lol
Kya patha, shaadi qismat mein hai bhi ya nahi, dekhte hai, kya hota hai.
How can I not… you… you with whom the world just stops… how can I not… how…
Maybe one day, one sweet day, you will realise how much you have come to mean to me. How much influence you had on this little girl's life, and for the beautiful better. How this girl who can be construed as mad in every sense of the word, still cherishes those innocent letters of conversation between you and her. How they are her most favourite possession in the whole word… a few words, typed in gay abandon, across a screen… how that is all she ever looks to and looks back on.
Maybe one day you will understand, how you gave me the biggest gift I could ever want – life.
I will be happy and I will be the craziest.
I want you to be happy,
Maybe one day, you will see. You will understand my… cannot even begin to be matched by anyone else…
[… and that's why I'm different. Thank you, Haylie. I love you.]
I feel you, twin ji…
You will always be loved by me. How can I not love you, you who understands and knows me so well, you with whom the world just stops… how can I not… how…
Maybe one day, one sweet day, you will realise how much you have come to mean to me. How much influence you had on this little girl's life, and for the beautiful better. How this girl who can be construed as mad in every sense of the word, still cherishes those innocent letters of conversation between you and her. How they are her most favourite possession in the whole word… a few words, typed in gay abandon, across a screen… how that is all she ever looks to and looks back on.
Maybe one day you will understand, how you gave me the biggest gift I could ever want – life.
I know you, mister. I know you want to see me fly through the open skies, I know you never meant to break my heart and crush my dreams……….. and believe you me, I will. I will be happy and I will be the craziest.
Because I love you and I want you to be happy, just like you want me to be happy.
Maybe one day, you will see. You will understand my love for you cannot even begin to be matched by anyone else… not even yourself.
Awww twin ji… I love you.
Oh darling… this brings back SO many memories… I know EXACTLY what you mean about “every single word of this song”… because every single word of this song is perfect.
I love you.