[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

I haven't read tonz of stuff on this thread, and I know I have to reply to stuff to, but I'm oh so lazy to read it all right now.

kya karu, kya na karu, yeh kaisi mushkil, hai!

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

LMFAO!!! How psycho can the world get? *goes on laughing*

boo:

I want someone whom I can diss no end, and who can diss me back no end… but will love me for who I am at the end of the day, and vice-versa…

You can still have that, even if both people are from the same religion.

boo:

Religion should not be an issue for both parties concerned, be they religious or not…

Why not?

Well…when people get married, they tend to only think about themselves, they forget that in the future, if God wills, they may have children. When two people from a different religion get married, their child is confused. The mother believes in one thing and the father believes in something else. the poor kid is so confused. I guess it's a good thing sometimes, because the kid gets to choose their religion. But that's not entirely true, because if it's in someone's destiny to choose their religion, it will happen no matter what, even if they have religious parents, both of the same religion.

All of it is fate.

In my opinion, religion should be an issue. For people who are not religious, it is not an issue, because they aren't strict in their religion anyway. But for religious people, it is an issue. Because they believe in what they believe in and they can't change their beliefs easily. It's hard for a religious person to be married to someone from another religion because their married life is harder. For instance, let's use me as an example. I love my religion, and that's the religion I would like to teach my kids. Suppose I married an athiest who also loves his religion(athiesm), how the heck would we raise our kids? I would teach them Islam and he would teach them athiesm. The poor kid would be so confused. Well, it's an entirely different story if one parent doesn't mind that their kids are taught a religion different from theirs.

boo:

1. Would you love someone regardless of their religion?

Yes. Boo and Khushi, I love you both regardless of your religion.

boo:

or 2. Would you marry someone that you haven't loved, and in order to make the marriage work (keep the marriage relationship in perspective), go ahead and love them?

Yes and no. Yes, because I can't force myself not to love someone. No, because I can't force myself to love someone. If I love them , then I love them. If I don't, then I don't.

Boo and Khushi, some people, like the both of you(correct me if I am wrong), think love is right only if two people love each other before they are married. why can't love be right if two people love each other after they are married? Is it so wrong to marry someone you don't love? Millions of people have done it, and it's worked out great.

Anyway, religion is an issue to me when it comes to marriage and I think it should be an issue for everyone. And I believe it is an issue for religious people, but not for people who are not religious. Does that answer your question?

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A487nSKr9Lk

This video is about a man who is paralyzed.

TRANSLATION(I bolded/italicized/underlined some of the words):

Interviewer: Of course this is Qadr (Creed) from Allah; we do not object to it. Allah says in the meaning of the verse, “Perhaps you would dislike something and yet it is better for you.” However, Abdullah, tell me about the most important things that you used to have and now you don't and wish you would have again after you have been paralyzed.

Abdullah: Three wishes??!!! I have three wishes that concern me. I am grieved by the fact that I can't have them. The first is to be able to prostrate even one “sajdah” to Allah (subhanahu wa ta'aala). I wish I could prostrate to Allah one sajdah only to never rise from it inshaAllah. There is fear inside me. There is an ayah (Verse) in the Quran that says, “…on the day when a shin will be uncovered and they will be invited to prostrate [to Allah] but they will not be able to.” (surat Noon) Today I can't prostrate; but when I was able to walk, I had neglected many prayers. Some people may feel sad for me when they see me now. Those people were not sad when I neglected my prayers.

The second wish is to be able to turn one page of the Quran. This is something you (ie: healthy people) never think of. But for me it is like a mountain.

The third is that in a day of “Eid” or happiness or any occasion, I wish I were able enter the house and give my mother a hug,,,,, (long pause).

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May Allah give him his wishes and forgive him and us all. Ameen

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kavita_0026:

buene suerte mi amor!

aww! Thanks for the good luck, hunnz! You're toooo sweet!

Actually, it went very bad. lol. She's such a beezee to me! You know what happened!??! After everyone presentation, the teacher told everyone what they did good and what they did bad, so u know, we can learn from our mistakes. But she didn't do it to me. So I was all like, “Senora, you didn't say anything to me.” and she looks at me funny, and says, “Oh. I forgot. Why don't you go up there and give your presentation again so I can do it to you?” I was like “No thanks.” Especially since she knows how much I hate the stage! What a beezee! [:'(]

Nessa:

In fact, las dos hablaban correctamente.

woot woot! We rock, Kavita! (thanks Nessa!)

Unique_princess:

Y iz lyfe such a b*tch sometimez…..????

Because it's all part of the test, hunnz. But I know you're strong and I believe in you, hunnz, you'll make it through.

Remember your MSN display name? If Allah brings you to it, then He'll take you through it. So don't lose hope, Tayba ji, and just keep your head up.

I love you tonz.

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

lol. lost what, exactly? My perspicacity? no, i haven't lost that yet.

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lol. I'm practicing my spanish.

hmm…let's see….mis sentimientos…my feelings…(If it's even right)…my heart hurts. I mean literally, it hurts. I dunnoe why. It better get better, or else!

and…ummm…………………………I dunnoe. I'm confooozled. yep yep. *nods*

lol.

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OhmyAllah! I just realized how BEAUTIFUL the songs from Saathiya are! If you guys haven't heard them, then listen to them A.S.A.P!!!!

lol, diiii!

do, teen, laharen hain, baaki samundar hai, saahil nahin hai kahin…

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

Whooo hoooo! Happy Belated Birthday Shereena ji! lol. The wave!

Sorry I'm so late.

I hope you had an awesome day ji, and many many more to come! Because you truly deserve it.

♥ Rani ♥

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Tayba ji, me tooooo! Except mine is worth hekka puntos(points).

I have to do it in Spanish! I can't speak Spanish! And I don't like my teacher! She is so mean to me! The other day I went up to her so that she can look at my paragraphs for the presentation, and she reads it, then kinda flings it at me, looks at me funny, and says, “Can you at least add one more sentence to this?” I was like “Sheesh, Senora, you don't have to be rude about it!” (that was like the first time I talked back to a teacher, she was just pissing me off) and then she goes and says sorry and makes me feel bad! grrrr. I don't like her. she's a meaniiiii.

I don't wanna present…I was supposed to do it today but we ran out of time so I have to do it tomorrow. Some people did it today…and she was criticizing them hekka much. I don't wanna do it, I'm scared. All those people staring at me…no way. sheesh, I can't just take an F either…I hope at least half the cla.ss is absent tomorrow! hahahaha.

okay, that's enuf of my rubbish, I gotta bounce.

*peace out*

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

oh! And I forgot the best part!!!! All of us just sliding on the ice and not getting much dancing in with all the falling! haha!

OhmyAllah! *jumps up and down*

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

black ink.

I'm sorry, but I just have to answer this:

Shakalaka Baby:

NEXT: Ice skating or dancing on ice? (to do.. )

DANCING ON ICE! That would be so much fun! I can just imagine ittttt! With Hayati and Ninja and OhmyAllah with rufus! She is soooo hilarious! I can just see Hayati and Rufus dancing, Ninja and I watching, then Hayati pulls in Ninja and u guys try to get me to dance too, but since I can't dance, I say NO WAY! But then I see rufus taking my hijaab, putting it on her hips, belly dancing, and making sure I'm dancing with her!!!! haha! That would be sooo sooo sooo soooo much FUN!!!

Reminds me of that wedding shower thing with Rufus!

gum or no gum? when ur bored? lol

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

person above me, I can wait for mah guests on the computer.

(My best friend just called me, I said hello, but she won't say hello back. So I hung up. lol.)

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

person above me is gettin all hyphy

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

Person above me is the dork I love so much.

Just tell Nessa ji straight up you ain't from the east coast. hehe.

Nessa ji, Ninja and I are repin da yay area. *does the thizz face* lol. yay area= bay area. … = around the golden gate bridge area in Northern California. hehe.

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

Dii… I love you oh so much.

Ninja…keep smiling, hunnz. If Allah brings you to it, He'll take you through it. Never lose faith and hope. I love you. and last night was superly duperly fun.

Boo… *hanging* You hang on as well, okay? Stay strong, twin ji. Just like the good times don't stay, neither do the bad times.

Scarrrry…your pms are filled with so much love. I'm sorry, but I won't reply right now, If I do, I'm gonna say things I don't want to say, I'll wait till the ghum wears off a bit.

that goes for everyone I need to reply to…

kavita_0026:

promise that you will smile after reading this!

…and I did smile. Kavita, hunnz… thank you.

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

Person above me…

I needed a hug, so I decided to steal one from you. how have you been, hunnz?

(that second one was for you ji. I wasn't being selfish that time.)

Yemenilicious:

serioComic:

that cool?? please dont flatter yrself. suppose to read that MENTAL. Thats more like it!

TOO BAD! Being the “mental” person i am, I think im oh so cool 🙂

that made me laugh. thanks.

Nessa:

Person above me…where do u stay? U sound straight up east coast!

lol. she stays where I stay. Don't we sound so different?

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

at times…virtual…at times…real…at times…both…at times…none…at this moment…virtual.

thinking up a story in your head, then sharing it with someone, or actually writing it out on paper and then sharing it with someone?

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

Scar face:

Next Q: do u think couples should go to pre-marital counselling??

I don't know, should they? I guess it depends on them. *shrugs* I dunnoe.

Next question: If ever a day came that you had to choose beyween your kid and your spouse, who do you think (at this moment in life) would you choose at that moment in life?

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

I still don't get it.

anyone wanna help this damsel in distress?

[RaNi iS ThE BeS]

xxjåsmïnexx:

awww… i miss u too. u hate phones but u want one? haha. ive been around…. not getting enough sleep. i should though. wats a eff o bee?… o i get it fob. but y? i have 2/3 of those electronics, but i dont want an ipod, everyone has one so why should i. lol. everyone has a life and u do too. haha <- dat was lame. but o well. get a job with me…. =] i need one. anyways, electronics aren't important, what is important are your friends and family, and that's all you really need to have a good life. O and some money. yep. ♥♥♥♥ bye… my w/e buddy!

oye! u kadu! I called yo a.ss thursday night, where in tarnation (hehe) have you been? (ha. ironic)

yes, I want a cell.

I'm a fob cuz I got no electronics! I feel like a fob when I'm using my friends' cells and I'm all like, “this thing aint working” cuz I can't use it right! lol. It's actually really hilarious.

and I want an ipod sooo bad! Actually, it's not just to listen to music, I wanna download the Qur'aan on it so I can study it wherever I am. lol. the other day I wanted to listen to Qur'aan so bad, but I was at school and I didn't have a Qur'aan with me, and I was thinking, if I had an ipod, I could have just listened to it on there.

yes, I have a life, but I want an exchange. lol.

xxjåsmïnexx:

what is important are your friends and family, and that's all you really need to have a good life.

awwwwwww! I seriously cannot hear you sayin that! hehe. ur so adorable, Jasmine! (Jazz-Mine)

job? with you? fo shigitty! dude, we have been talkign about getting a job together ever since I was 16! But u weren't 16, so we couldn't get a job together. but now, we are both the right age, so this summer, Inshallah, we'll get a job. I seriously need some monay! My best friends b-day is coming upperz!

xxjåsmïnexx:

serioComic:

is that so stinky?? we'll see…

try me. =] p.s. is stinky the best word u can come up with?

yo, Oreo ji, take my advice and don't mess with mah nig.ga. You ain't got nothin on her.

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