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I feel extraordinarily ~~~~~HAPPY~~~~~ Did you see how wonderfully the SUN shined down on the green swaying trees? Did you Did you notice how blue the sky seemed? The SUN .. so bright, so YELLOW, so HAPPY! The wind – it cleanses my face with each blow! It refreshes me after each visit. I feel like dancing and skipping around the tall buildings – I want to become FREE. I sing, I sing of happy SONGS! I do a —lesser degree move—- of the pretty star girl who danced to the song in the movies. I FEEL HAPPY. I feel high off of a cup overflowing with happiness! Bring some towels bring some mops … its creating a RIVER! The SUN it shines so brightly It makes me feel ELATED It makes me want to DANCE around and SKIP like a little school girl who is FREE like a blue bird on a cheerful SPRING day. I am happy ~~~ I just touched the CLOUDS. The feathery friends glided through my fingers. Pull me into your trace … let me be the tail on your track! I want to dance and SKIP I want to feel FREE. Happy Elated Energetic The MIND holds immense POWER Flying Bubbling Skipping Dancing Running Happy Happy Happy Unbelievably JoYFul

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Oo la la … purrrty senora!

Tayaba – you went to Greece? Thats cool yo!

Did you guys ever eat that other type of Rocher ..however you spell it … Its not Ferrero … its some other name + Rocher and its dark chocolate.

Ferrero Rocher is reallyyy addicting but its a total messer upper for a chocolate!

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Why dont you jump off your own plank

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Aww Tabs … feel better soon hun .. and go to the doctor if you dont get better!!!

~~Gets lots of rest too~~~ Dont forget – its important!!~~~

Your lil bro sounds adorable!!!

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In the name of Allah, the Merciful, the Very Merciful.

You have made some very good points and asked many good questions, here is my reply:

Question : Do you think many men out there are fit or able to marry many women and provide equally for them? Giving the same-equal amount of basically everything he has [including himself]?

Of course there is, however do not forget that it is a stipulation and condition of marriage that the man can only marry a second time if he has enough wealth. there is a type of man who is God-fearing but society as it is portrays all men to be pigs. this is not the case, there are lots of good men who can maintain a wife.

Technically how can he share himself equally with many wives? How can you even share time and leisure equally? I feel sort of wrong to keep asking these questions … dont ever take me wrong … my intention is NEVER to upset anyone.

Ness is right …. who are we to question … I mean, the parties who are going into this … must have agreed and must have been real happy to go forth with it. I just wanted to understand it from you guys point of view though.

lastly u mentioned, I have a question : I really doubt this, especially since you just quoted the above but… Is it alright for a muslim man to abuse[beat] his wife if she does something he doesnt like?

No, it is completely wrong for a man to beat his wife, it is the perfection of faith to be kind to ones wife. Infact, the Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) rebuked those who did hit their wives

I cant remember where I heard this but, I heard that its okay for Muslim men to beat their wives as long as they break no bones. I just wanted to clarify —- do you know anything of this? Or the source of my information is totally wrong?

i have above mentioned somethings about Christianity. No offence has been intended, rather a just comparative analysis on scriptures. Forgive me if i have created any bitter feelings as it was not my intention.

No offense taken Tayaba… and no offense intended from me. Thank you for attending to my questions

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What it comes down to is the intent of the man and the agreement of the woman/women! Who among us has the ability to read minds?

The thing about religion is that it's followers are imperfect humans. What one's holy book may read is not always followed, even by the most well wishing of individuals. Most religions have sects, divisions, misinterpretations (intentional and unintentional)!

Ultimately God Himself will decide and that is where our faith & works will speak for themselves.

Yes yes, I know I know Ness … it really does boil down to the parties who must commit. I mean, they are the ones who are putting themselves into something … so obviously they must be ready/wanting/accepting it.

I just wanted to understand it from another point of view though. I really hope that my topic hasnt offended anyone, because I have no intention of offending anyone. I realize this is a sensitive topic … and if anyone wants it to be closed … dont be afraid to tell me.

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Hi person above me, hope you're alright? *hug*

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You mean that dude..al paccino ? is that him??

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OMG -WHY?- [sighs]

Because its just GAY sometimes[most times]

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Always yum!

TWIX chocolate bar

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I meant to say … there was a trend showing that kids and teenagers are highly unlikely to get diabetes.

However, in the past couple of decades … there were cases of kids and teenagers with diabetes … and well, I guess the trend got disrupted.

Yes yes you must check up

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“O you who believe, marry women in there two's and three's and four's but if you cannot do justice between them, then marry only one.” Surah Nisa

The Qur'an is the only book on the face of the planet which has the statement “Marry only one.” There is no other scripture which propagates this idea. Of course there are other scriptures that encourages this, in fact, the other scriptures talk about the sin of 'being with others' while being married.

What Islam is saying is 'yes, marry women in there two's, three's and four's ONLY if you can provide for them all, maintain them all and treat them all equally'. Question : Do you think many men out there are fit or able to marry many women and provide equally for them? Giving the same-equal amount of basically everything he has [including himself]?

And without doubt there is a type of woman who does not mind sharing her husband and there is definitley a man out there who does not mind taking on an extra responsibility. Well if both[all] parties agree,then I guess it will work … just had to know the undertones of these actions

A few words of the Final Prophet, Muhammad (May peace and blessings always be upon him)

He told the Muslims: “Fear Allah in respect of women.” And: “The best of you are they who behave best to their wives.” And: “A Muslim must not hate his wife, if he is displeased with one bad quality in her, let him be pleased with one that is good.” And:“The more civil and kind a Muslim is to his wife, the more perfect in faith he is.”

I have a question : I really doubt this, especially since you just quoted the above but… Is it alright for a muslim man to abuse[beat] his wife if she does something he doesnt like?

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Beautiful piece indeed. Just note that Im not saying anything agaisnt Islam. I would never do that! I told you of my belief already, all Gods) are the same. But, I just wanted to know some of the beliefs that are in your religion. The question wasnt directed to Islam being beautiful or not. It was about one part in Islam which deals with it being okay for men to marry many women. [Soo, no offense intended]

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Having more than one partner in marriage is adultery, whether u are legally married or not..thats just my take on it..I will NOT share my husband, the father of my children, my partner, my friend, my soulmate, with another woman like that in that way..I just wont….

I'm sorry, not wanting to share your husband is one thing, but calling something that Islam has made permissible 'adultry', is not right. To be quite honest, it ticked me off. Especially knowing that one of the reasons Islam allows polygyny is to lessen the rate of cheating and adultry in the world. So when I hear ladies in the west saying things like “i would never accept that my husband gets married to someone else” it just makes me think to myself… sometimes they are forced to accept being cheated on, but when it comes to their husbands getting married and doing it lawfully, they object. It doesn't make sense to me.

Hun, she said aside from any relgious beliefs … she's just sharing her take on it.

I dont understsand this though, you're speaking as if the male brain is hard wired to be with other women or something … that even if a man marries one woman, somehow he will end up being with two or more.

I mean no offense in any shape or form. I just wanted/needed to be informed. I dont mean to upset/hurt anyone here and if I did, Im sorry [Im just doing this for knowledge].

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I didnt say people cant get it at younger ages.

Yes, check up with your doctor if you feel you are at risk.

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Lolz well yeah I guess so

I remember our high school librarian, she was mad mean

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Yeah i know right…pshhhttt…. them things they call 'diet' — puh-leaseeee ………….. well its worth a try though!

Aw man…. please, how could some lady look at you and say that!! But yeah…. see your doctor if you think you're at risk…but I strongly DOUBT that you have diabetes at your age

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The librarian gave you a present? Thts nice but…really strange

California must be a lil paradise island or something!!

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Yo I want some a that chocolate!!

Sighsss but Im not gonna have any *cries*

See, Im trying this new thing out where I stay away from sweets .. lol.. yeah lets see how long that will last!!!

But nawwww, i have to! i've been stuffing my face with so mucha them sweets

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Whoa whoa Whoa there Senora!

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