Rani – no.
Ninja –
Sigh!
Or better still… why doesn't he get himself a cook? Although more expensive, a cook might prove better in the long run, what say? No temper tantrums, no cooking only when she feels like it, no threat of leaving the housework in pursuit of a job…
~Khushi~:Sweets, thats the thing people dont understand. Materialistic things- do they really matter? this is the question people forget in thier 'pride'. They think they're never going to leave- in the spree of the moment. All these rich people- are they REALLY rich. im not saying that owning money to survive is bad- but people who waste money like leaves… that really makes me think. Sum say they earn for their offspring or their grandchildren… but then those are the exact people who sometimes take tht wealth for granted. But, ur Bhapa hasnt left with nothing… he's taken your prayers with him and he will still receive them every time you remember him and smile. Celebrate his life, the goodness he may have poured into ur life. I dont believe in crying… I did wen my daijaan passed away, but not for long. She was a very jovial person, cracked silly jokes and really made me laugh with her Urdu/punjabi mixed one liners! i still laugh sumtimes thinking of them. Its a way of life Heera- and remember, Souls connect. There is some sort of 'one-ness' with everyone we love I think, not just have ONE person, but many. There's a part of you soul which is in 'one' with ur Bhapa ji. Seek his blessings in your prayers. I can empathise with you Heera, coz i know wot u mean. Dun worry Hun, we're always here if you want to talk
I was searching for 'Captain Bhangra Da' lyrics, and I found this written by Khushi at the top of the page…
Calling her a beautiful person at heart would be an insult to the person she is.
Scar face:
Shame dude…learn to cook..its not that difficult..ur just damn lazy
Ouch. That sounded harsh.
… and she's gone.
Scar face:Hmm I like yr wacko imagination
btw ghosts float,no need for slippers and they dnt sleep, theyr ghosts, Jeez u can do with sum
improvement with the imagination
Scar face:lmao again…wait..u forgot
Ness: Alie hold on a sec ok…***helllo there** 'to sum hot dude she just saw
Me: Laughin my ass off…
SenorJalapeno:Kavita ji, I do not know if your Didi will kill you, but you may succeed at getting me killed. There is no chemistry and most certainly, beyond a few flirtatious asides, will never be. I have to stay within my league Lol. Getting my hopes up and day-dreaming of what can be possible may excite my soul for a fleeting moment, but will eventually incite misery that naturally comes with the bitter panacea of what is real.
So, I choose to be grateful that one could find friends far away but kind enough to offer perspicacious perspective by means of captivating conversation. One cannot ask for more, and perhaps should not, because when one learns to say 'I have enough' the simple joy of chosen contentment helps them live the life of their dreams while they are yet wide awake.
Senor… My thoughts…
There is no knowing what the future holds – for ANY of us.
I don't agree that there are leagues – at all. I don't create boundaries (as much as I am consciously aware of..) – age, location, looks, other useless biodata, etc… it always seems to me that other people do… and I don't push those who create these boundaries, because it is not worth the hassle. They have to break free themselves, and they have to know to break free themselves, without others' intervention. Or maybe others' intervention is OK, but still… so I don't agree when you say you have to stay within your league. Not just with regards to myself or other members in here, but in general.
Also in general, i.e. not relating to love in particular, why should we settle for enough when we can enjoy the pursuit of 'more'? If 'enough' is what one wants from life, I am no one to argue with that, but if I personally had a choice between 'enough' and 'more'… why ever would I not strive for 'more', if that is what I want? And yes – I think 'want' is a good enough reason for chasing the tiniest of things.
SenorJalapeno:Kavita ji, I do not know if your Didi will kill you, but you may succeed at getting me killed. There is no chemistry and most certainly, beyond a few flirtatious asides, will never be. I have to stay within my league Lol. Getting my hopes up and day-dreaming of what can be possible may excite my soul for a fleeting moment, but will eventually incite misery that naturally comes with the bitter panacea of what is real.
So, I choose to be grateful that one could find friends far away but kind enough to offer perspicacious perspective by means of captivating conversation. One cannot ask for more, and perhaps should not, because when one learns to say 'I have enough' the simple joy of chosen contentment helps them live the life of their dreams while they are yet wide awake.
If I may say so..
Not sure how much of the first paragraph you meant, but – I disagree. With both the paragraphs.
serioComic:i have no choice. im instructed to do that
By whom? Your partner boss-in-crime, who is not here?
RaNi iS ThE BeS:and oye hoye, do I sense some chemistry between Boo ji and Senor ji?
lmao. boo, will u ever get tired of me teasing you? It started off with Mr. Desi hunk, then to Baqtiar saab, then Oreo ji, and now Senor… *sigh* How I love this.
… sweety, that does NOT make me look good!
chanda ki doli mein, pariyon ki jholi mein
shehzadi aayi meri
chanda ki doli mein, pariyon ki jholi mein
khushiyan woh layi meri
(palkon ke dar se woh aankhon ke ghar mein rahe
khwaabo ko sach hone de) – 2
har ek dua mein usko hi maanga sada
woh bhi mujhe maang le
chanda ki doli mein, pariyon ki jholi mein
shehzadi aayi meri oo oo oo o
aane se uske yaha mehka hain sara sama
usko toh sajda kare ab yeh zameen asmaan
mujhe hain yakeen itna hasin maine kahin dekha nahi
sun le jar tu yeh iltejaah hain khuda
woh kaash mujhko miley…
chanda ki doli mein, pariyon ki jholi mein
shehzadi aayi meri oo oo oo o
khwaabo, khwaabo ka aao ek ghar banaye
harsu jaha hum mohabbat sajaye
subah shaam ho jaa dilkaashi,raat miley shabnami
ek chand jaise taaron ke dil mein pane
yeh pyar aaise khile
chanda ki doli mein, pariyon ki jholi mein
shehzadi aayi meri Disha oo oo oo o
Scar face:Am not sure if these are signs but life is craze
I was a witness to this fire…Knew by all the screaming that someone was
going to be hurt, but prayed I was being paranoid….
Maybe its a sign …I shud be going back home…
thanks Ness ( when u read this ) and Mara for being there with me…
love u galz
Ps: keep the families who lost their homes an those hurt in yr prayer please…
In this mornings paper:
“”apparently there was a fire in malvern last ,and 1 man burned to death and pple lost their homes… i think there were shacks behind there””
Ouch… you witnessed a fire..? What? Where? Do you have a link to the newspaper article ji?
SenorJalapeno:'Jacques LeFevrier left nothing to chance when he decided to commit suicide. He stood at the top of a tall cliff and tied a noose around his neck. He tied the other end of the rope to a large rock. He drank some poison and set fire to his clothes. He even tried to shoot himself at the last moment. He jumped and fired the pistol. The bullet missed him completely and cut through the rope above him. Free of the threat of hanging, he plunged into the sea. The sudden dunking extinguished the flames and made him vomit the poison. He was dragged out of the water by a kind fisherman and was taken to a hospital, where he died of hypothermia.'
I found this somwhere a long time ago. The Suicide Manual would have been of good use to him. Sad but funny. Yes, I know I am morbid but then again we all die sometime.
The Suicide Manual is a film? That thing is hilarious! Sigh! Morbid, maybe. Sometimes we use humour as a defense mechanism, maybe without even realising it, in our subconscious… to fight against thoughts of sorrow that lace the news of a death of a loved one. Or perhaps, that is an illogical explanation, and we are simply able to accept humour pertaining to death.
Whatever the logic or reason may be (for surely there is one.. whether or not its ideas appeal to everyone is a different matter, of course..).. that quote brought me laughs, and for that reason alone, I like it.
Oh Lord…!
I found this when I was doing a Google search for harmless ways of dying or something… ( can't remember what..)
http://www.ctrl-c.liu.se/~ingvar/methods/other.html
Without meaning to sound, you know, like a psychopath… (!) I found it hilarious!
Have you read 'A Tree A Rock A Cloud'..? A short story… your comment reminded me of that.
RaNi iS ThE BeS:
Lol. Pagli. Till they come back, I'll keep you entertained?
1. Even after they come back, Rani…
2. That picture describes my face and my mood right now – SO MUCH! LOL… I'm thinking, “I want a hug… ” lol..
I love to love.
Nothing beats the feeling of feeling love when you're in the presence of someone you love.
Bas.
Nessa:No can do Zilla. Sorry…
I owe it to Boo Ma & *cracking up laffin* Senor Jalapeno to give me the go ahead.
Only the aunty next door would gossip, but not this one…
Nessa… yaar… wtheck??!!
Nessa:Make the most of your time ma…great friends are such a big part of our lives. Be it online or in person!
And on that happy note, Nessa ji, I shall leave…
Must go now.. and the movie is in about three hours!
Take care guys… it's been fun!