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Yemenilicious:
Salaaaammmmm Rani! Main Rani hoon, Boo
Salaam Yemenilicious, and welcome. I gues you didn't mean me, when you started this thread? yucky-yucky-YUCKY!!!! Don't like anything that looks like fish (or is fish, actualy
)Fish?
I think you can. Some “loves” that have pas.sed will never fade away completely. One can keep a special place in you heart. But that doesn't mean you love the one you are going to marry with any less. You can love someone, eventhough you have loved (or still love, as you wish) someone else before.
I really loved my ex-boyfriend, and he will always have a place in my heart, but I'm very sure, I will ever love someone else enough to marry him (I don't know where I have to find the guy, but that's another problem
). boo: RaNi iS ThE BeS:condoms, hunny? I hope you know that those things don't always work…
*snort* This cracked me up… boyyyy I wish I could have seen Am Rani ji's face when she reads this… sigh…
Hahaha, you should have seen a smile on it… I know you didn't mean to be funny, Raniji, but it sounded SO sweet
And a bit funny, to be honest, haha.(Really, I'm not laughing at you)And yes, I do know about condoms. I grew up in the Netherlands, where having s.e.x before marriage is completely accepted (so is living together without being married, having children withour being married, and two men/women getting married), so I'm very aware of the risk s.e.x might bring, and how to protect myself. But, as I said, I'm not someone who sleeps around. I don't believe in s.e.x. without love, and as you know I have no boyfriend…
RaNi iS ThE BeS: Am Rani:Example: My best friend used to have a boyfriend, years ago. We were pretty young, but she really love him at that moment, so she decide to sleep with him. After a long time, the relationship ended..In most religions, she's “damned”. if she wants to become christian (she's an atheist as well),she should feel sorry for what she did, and she should suffer from that for th rest of her life and beyond.
But at the moment she really loved that boy, she only loved him, and the relationship felt right. Who is God than to say she did something wrong?? It's up to her to decide if she has to feel sorry about it or not. She has to face herself, and if she's ok with herself, than it's fine..
Who is God to say she did something wrong? God, of course.
Why does it always come down to s.e.x? Why do people want to have s.e.x so badly before they are married? What if your relationship doesn't work out? Then you go and find another guy, and sleep with him as well…Then, if that doesn't work out either, you find another guy, and if that doesn't work out either, NEXT! I mean, Come on! Imagine how many people you sleep with! It's completely disgusting if you ask me. But if you're okay with that, then hey, it doesn't make a difference to me. But think about AIDS…
Rani, I did not mean you should just sleep around with everyone, hop from one bed to another!! Of course not!! What do you take me for???? I was talking about serious relationships, not that one should sleep with every boy she talks 2!! If you are with a guy, and you feel he's the one for you, and he feels like you are the one for him, and you realy love eachother, I don't think s.e.x is a bad thing. If, after years, the relationship turns out to be not right, in my opinion, you don't have to feel sorry about the s.e.x. At the moment you were together, if felt like it would be forever. When you get married, it's not garanteed either that you wil stay together for always, right?? (But that depends on culture, I know how Afghans think about divorce). If you meet another guy later, and with him, it feels like it will be for life as well, why not have s.e.x? As you love him at the moment it happens, I don't think it's bad, and I don't think you have to feel sorry about it.
And again, I don't agree with sleeping with a guy which you met in a bar or something, just for one night. I'm really talking about serious relationships, when you fall in love with someone, you shoudl wait some time, to see which way the relationship is going. I don't mean you should sleep with a guy, just because he seems nice.. Please don't think I'm the kind of girl who sleeps around, because I'm not…
And about aids…Think about condoms…
boo:if your b/f were to tell you that he loves another girl too, what would you do shakB? if he can love you with so much intensity and yet find it in himself to say “i love you” to another girl too… what would you do?
Just a little note about this: If my boyfriend would tell me that he would love both me and another girl, I would not believe him. If he loves another girl, he would hurt me so much, and our love will not me exclusive anymore. That would hurt me so much, that I could never believe again that he loves me as well. If he loves me, why does he hurt me SO bad by telling me he loves someone else?? I think the love between me and my boyfriend has to be something special, something exclusive, something you share with no one else. If he shares his love and everything that comes with it (his deepest feelings, his wildest dreams, his good and his bad habbits, and all the other things you share with the one you love) with another person as well, what makes ME special to me than?? I put the one I love 'bove all other man, I choose him to be my partner, but that has to show, hasn't it?? If I love him, an several other guys as well, none of them is REALLY special..I think you b/f or g/f has the right to be the one… And how can he or she be the one if you have several other “ones”?
I hope you guys get what I mean…
boo:??? ?????? ?? ????Kabhi alvida na kehnaSO… why is it the letter 'ka' in 'kehna' (????), and not 'ke', as in: ???doesn't ???? work out as: kAhna??aaany kind soul? Please?Madhu ji are you still there by any chance? lol… if you want to answer, that is…Hi Boo, why don't you just take Hindilessons? I can't answer you question, eventhough I'm taking lessons, buy maybe taking lessons might help you anyway…
Hee guys, it was great to be here together with you, but I have to go
It's getting late, and I have to work tomorrow. Hope to talk to you soon, hope you have a nice evening, and that ou have a good night sleep!Love you all!
Shakalaka Baby:Love is as the translation from some Hindisong says… “Love is a secret that cannot be understood”
I guess that's the only true definition (eventhough it's not “really” a translation…)
Boo, are you still there?? Kahan ho aap??
Shakalaka Baby: Am Rani:My mum always says she would die if she could save my sister of me with it. She's not sure if she would die for my father… Does than mean she does not love him?
I think she really loves your father, but maybe she thinks he will save himself. She knows he's strong, and grown up enough to save himself. You and your sister are her children so she feels that she has to protect you from whatever comes on your path to hurt you… Eventhough you're grown up, you're still her little babies…
Yes, we are
, but don't you promise to take care of eachother, when you get married? In sickness and in health?? Where does the “caretaking” end? Shakalaka Baby:If you stay together you can wonder forever how it would be to be with the other person, but if you break up with your b/f or g/f, the relationship is broken forever, and you'll have regrets for life if the other person is not worth it in the end… Did love fail then? No it didn't, it just made you make the wrong decission…
But you will never know if the person you choose it not worth it in the end. Your life might su.ck with this oter person, but who can garantee you your life wouldn't had su.cked even more if you had stayed with the one you were with in the first place? You will never know if you took the wrong decision…
And what do you think? Is there something wrong in you relationship in the first place, when you fall in love with another? Do you miss something in the relationship you have, when you let yourself fall in love with someone else?
What's the definition of love anyway? Can you only speak of love when you are willing to sacrifice everything you have (including your family and all your dreams) for this person? My mum always says she would die if she could save my sister of me with it. She's not sure if she would die for my father… Does than mean she does not love him?
Or is love, as Shakz (Hi Shakz!!) says, just respect and trust? Or is it friendship (that's always comes in mind when talking 'bout love. Just can't help it
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